Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Lesbian Sex 101

With Valentine’s Day just around the corner, what better time would there be to talk about sex? More specifically, my personal favorite and preference, lesbian sex! I like to think that lesbians have it all when it comes to getting creative in the bedroom. We aren’t limited to certain appendages that cannot come off, or worse, cannot get off. We can use every inch of our body to satisfy our partner. And if that won’t do the trick we can usually reach into our “goodie” drawer and pull out whatever will fulfill that need.

As lesbians, we are not limited to positions. We can move in whatever direction we want to. If we want doggy, we’ll do doggy. If we want cowgirl lap dance, we’ll do cowgirl lap dance! Fortunately for us, our neighborhood sex shop offers a plethora of devices specifically made to help us achieve orgasm in whichever position we prefer. When it comes to positions, every gal has her personal preference. The positions we choose to get in really depend on the act itself. If we’re talking oral, the sky is the limit! Anywhere from 69 to from behind, take your pick! Toys are pretty much in the same area as far as possibilities. But the cherry on top of this “position sundae” is the ability to use our bodies to make our partner moan. The vagina is a vast and endless source of possibility in itself. You can use just about anything to make it quiver with excitement.

On to the “goodies”! Our toys do not require specific climate control, mental diversions, or even lockjaw in order to work successfully. Be it latex, glass, or CyberSkin, our fun handheld gadgets are ready to go at a moment’s notice. Instead of being with a male partner where you cannot change the size, consistency, or shape, we can pick and choose. We can even base our preference off of color if we were so inclined. “No honey, I don’t think I’m in the mood for the flesh tone. Tonight I want fuchsia!” With all the gizmos that are made for us, it’s a wonder we ever venture into the daylight and live a “normal” life.

Of course it goes without saying that safe sex is the best sex. That being said, there are contraceptives that lesbians can use in order to keep their fun spots clean, healthy, and functioning normal. Getting tested prior to beginning any new sexual relationship is by far the smartest move you can make. After the air is cleared with that (and as long as you remain faithful), all systems are GO! The beauty and added bonus is there will never be a pregnancy scare. Which I suppose could also present a woe. Especially when you are in a committed relationship where the possibility of having children comes up. In which case you make a trip to your local sperm bank or that trusting gay boyfriend!

Go forth lezzies! Have sex and plenty of it! Stay healthy, safe, and informed. No holds barred. Do your research as well. If you’re curious about trying something new, discuss it with your partner and do it!

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